wedding bridesmaid dresses
When young girls daydream about their
wedding day, they usually focus on the wedding bridal gowns
more than any other particular factor. Don't get me wrong – a
young woman with an active imagination will think about wedding
cake toppers, bridal floral arrangements, the sound of wedding
bells, and all the rest as well. Still, it usually comes down
to the wedding dresses. The problem with this is that, when
picking out bridal dresses, women are inevitably constrained to
some degree or another by convention. There is just too much
tradition behind it all. Bridal gowns have to be white, usually
have a veil, and often have a long train of ruffles hanging
behind them. Although there is good bit of variation in wedding
dresses and more innovation arriving every year, they are still
not a great opportunity for self expression. Strangely enough,
the wedding bridesmaid dresses are where the bride really gets
to express herself.
As a wedding planner, I used to always be surprised when my
clients were disappointed about the variety of wedding dresses
available. That is when I began to tell my clients that they
should put more thought into the wedding bridesmaid dress them
in to what they are wearing. After all, the wedding bridesmaids
dresses are not there just to make the bridesmaids look
beautiful. They serve a second function as well. A wedding
bridesmaid dress helps to set off the bridal gown. For example,
if the wedding bridesmaid dresses are cream-colored, they will
look similar to the bridal gown but not as radiant, making the
bride seem to glow more brightly. If, on the other hand, they
are a dark color or some vibrant shade of red or blue, they
will set off the wedding dress quite strikingly.
The wedding bridesmaid dresses can also be coordinated with
other aspects of the decor. They can reflect the colors used in
the wedding flowers, the wedding cake topper, the decorations
of the room, or even an outdoor wedding scene. The bride is
supposed to stick out and look iconic – that is the whole
point. But she is also required to walk down the aisle with the
bridesmaids. There is a point to that too. Her wedding is her
opportunity to shine more brightly than anyone else, and the
wedding bridesmaid dresses should reflect this. I'm not saying
that they shouldn't be beautiful – of course they should be
beautiful. But their beauty should be carefully tailored to
enhance the beauty of the bride even more.
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